Fashion, Lifestyle



The perfect match  is when he is tall and dark
and he likes short white women. You are short and white and you like tall and dark guys. He doesn’t go to church but he wants a girl who does, you go to church but you don’t mind a guy who doesn’t, you are different but perfect together. He doesn’t like fat women but he likes beautiful exotic faces. He meets you chubby with a beautiful face, he likes you but doesn’t like that you are plus size so, he underhandedly implies that you should lose some weight when it was never in your mind to do so!!! Now that’s a disaster.

Impeccable is one print on another print. The prints and textures are different but they complement each other like this skirt and blouse, added together with a classical jacket from KOUKLA (YDE) and red clutch plus shoes from solo. Splendid!

This look was inspired by Solange, queen of prints and bright colors and I thought I’d try something a little different (STYLING PRINTED BLOUSE ) and I loved it. Solange recently got married to a man very different to her but they seemed ideal and thus the inspiration for this post.

One of the biggest problems of our generation is that we are not patient. Now, going back to the man who loves dolls, (pretty faces), but despises fat girls. If he had waited he would have found his match and if she was vigilant enough she would have noticed that he wasn’t made for her.

Love is like two puzzle pieces that are very different but fit perfectly. It is the powerful moment when we meet another person and feel energized and are immediately aware of our heart pounding. The heart doesn’t pound in isolation though; the beats from the two individuals are in sync.

But what happens when the mind finally adapts? He gets used to your beauty, your great body, your perfume and your way of saying things. She gets used to your muscles, your protection etc. The reality is; ‘’after some time you have to put in time and energy and make a conscious effort to sustain the relationship and the passion.”

When we stop getting rewarded for our hard work, we stop working. We then start to look for the rewards, the compliments, elsewhere. So what shall we do? Well, I have a few suggestions.

    • Communicate regularly,
    • Be friends,
    • Be open and honest,
  • Don’t be predictable

Most importantly, wake up every day thinking of different ways you could make your ten out of ten happy, almost like the insaneness of this outfit 🙂

But remember folks these are my opinions and,  although I’ve mentioned predictability bear in mind that there are certain men/women out there who appreciate routine. So it’s all about listening, knowing and adjusting accordingly. Don’t force fit, just fit.

Hugs and Kisses


Outfit of the day

Shoes: Solo Shoes

Skirt: Rage

Blouse: No name/ Models own/ Vintage/ Moms closet

Jacket/ Blazer: YDE/ Koukla

Clutch: State Theatre Market ( Pretoria CBD)

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  1. Jamie says:

    wow you look so beautiful in these photos and the light green in the background is insane. I think it’s great how u mix fashion and love, your writting style is intriguing.

    Keep up the good work.

    1. Aaaaah 🙂 #Hugs

  2. Laura says:

    You look stunning! These photos are amaizing.

    1. Thank you Laura

  3. Pink and Fit says:

    Those legs!!! #walksaway.

    1. lol Come back #winks

  4. Benedict Magao says:

    Cant help but stare @ ya beauty and ya legs!

    1. Thank you Benedict…

    2. I don’t know what to say #hides 🙂

  5. siyabonga says:

    In two words, captivating and exhilarating. This is by far the most easy-to-read and well thought piece i have ever read in a long time. The pics on the other hand are absolutely stunning.

    Keep up the good work and continue to soar higher and higher!



    1. Hi Siyabonga.. Thanks so much for ur kind words. It takes an entire team and you never disappoint. Thanks for the encouragement and the beautiful pictures, every day. One slay at a time.:-)

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