Love is understanding and accepting a person wholeheartedly with all their imperfections and flaws but, I’ve come to realise that that kind of love can only come naturally. That kind of love can’t be manufactured and feelings called into action…when you love someone you just do…you don’t need a reason, it just happens.
When you meet someone for the first time … as a girl you always know… from the way they speak to you, the way they look, the way they smell and the way they treat you. It’s not rocket science, maybe A chemical reaction. Love is simple… we complicate things. Love is calling him and he picks up. Calling him at what ever time and he still picks up. And when he can’t pick up, he calls back when he can. The point is… when someone loves you … they priorities you.
You can’t say you love someone when you’ve never seen them angry, pissed or annoyed, so you like only the good parts about them? No honey… Love is understanding that people are not perfect. We all fighting our own battles and we shouldn’t be judged for being human and having lived life. Some people find us looking beautiful on the outside but internally bleeding. The fact that I’ve decided to go on a date with you shows that I’m trying and will not let my internal healing wounds affect my future happiness… give someone a break, acknowledge their efforts and meet them half way.
Love is knowing a persons love language and learning to speak in that language. I like gifts… I just do… but they don’t have to be extravagant or expensive. I just like gifts..
My man doesn’t believe in Valentines Day and funny enough, i respect that. Actually its valentines day for us almost every time we see each other. If its romance I want, i geet it, if its gifts , all the time, if its sweetness, i get honey. So im ok with him chicken-ing out on Valentines day lol and that doesn’t mean i cant do something special for him either. I Like Valentines day and what it stands for so im showing him that Vday is not just for Ladies, spoiling my man makes me excited. I like the look on his face when he is genuinely surprised and happy, i live for those moments
Being in Love is providing what’s needed before expressed because you know each other so well. Find the person you don’t have to try too hard to impress. Find the person whose demons dance with your own.
Find the ying to the yang.
Find the missing piece to the puzzle and when you’ve found it, let not your love be separated by foolishness. Be smart, treasure your love.
Happy Valentines Day
