BLUE DRESS WHITE POLKA DOTS : TAKE A SEAT
My inspiration for designing was ignited while hanging out with one of my closest friends for dinner one night. I was told how much she missed seeing new creations from me and decided to do something about it. So guys, in a nut shell the dress I’m rocking is from VestidoRose available to order. The clutch from YDE and shoes are DIVA from the store MODA shoes. I love the light chiffon detail at the bottom as well as the two tone effect on the top part with feminine touches from the use of pink polka dots.
I wasn’t always like this, in my definition, confident, awesome, out there and accepting of all my flaws. I rarely wore short skirts and tight jeans because I felt my ass was too big as a teenager but my ass was small at that time compared to now.
Time elapsed and with reading books, hanging out with confident people, being surrounded by beautiful women of all sizes, thin, fat, thick, light, dark, white, black etc. made me appreciate beauty and acknowledge that beauty is not what THEY say it is, beauty is what I say it is and if I think so everyone else can grab a seat.
With that change of mindset I started to attract individuals who loved my appearance and encouraged me to embrace and accept myself for the gorgeous woman they saw. There are a lot of different breeds of guys and they all have their own ideals on what they find attractive and fortunately we met. It wasn’t just in relationships that I found this energy but in friends as well. And so my confidence grew and I became more accepting of my body and never looked back since. Well, maybe to check now and again and make sure my butt is still there. lol
Being more confident has its downs, some people start seeing you as narcissistic or arrogant only because they can’t understand how so much self-love can fit in one person. They sometimes go to the extent of asking questions like, ‘why do you love yourself so much, why not take it down a notch’? But wait; First of all, we have come a long way as people. We didn’t just fall from the sky, land and start walking tall. We struggled. We struggled with our insecurities and the media didn’t help at all. But we survived, Came out of the fire, flaws and all and here you are trying to take me back to the stone age by trying to make me feel like I should only love myself according to what you think is appropriate doses. Stop. Have another seat.
People that usually put people down are only trying to because they have psychological problems. A person who doesn’t have problems has no problem with celebrating your victory, cheering you on and pulling you up. Know the difference
Everyone is a little bit narcissistic and self-love and self-confidence is healthy and good. Don’t allow people to stand over your candle, don’t allow people to dim your light,
Let it shine and let it shine bright.
OUTFIT OF THE DAY7
Denim and Lace Clutch: 4 FLAVOUR/ YDE
Silver Black Heels: DIVA. MODA SHOES